I`m not quite where I can tell the world how much I love my fans.
But there are some. And they do write.
I’m so grateful, of course, but it’s not always so easy to respond. In fact, it’s been so challenging lately, that my responding- time on Facebook has gone down (so to speak). You know that line where it says that she`ll probably answer within the hour. Well, that was the case before. Now it says that I’ll respond within a day. Usually, she responds within a day. Most likely, that’s what`s gonna happen, Facebook says. And all we can do is pray.
I mean. I pray as well. For sure. But let’s face it, I kind of started this whole blog because I couldn’t wrap my head around how hard it was to find a man. So, when some guy from Norway now wants to know what happened to «all of these men», I get a bit reluctant. You know. Where to begin?! Also, he felt that the guy from date#33 «seemed okay». Course he was okay! He was more than okay, actually. He was so okay, in fact, that I would love for him to be one of my girlfriends! But those things can be a bit hard to say. And if I’m right, they can be a bit hard to hear, as well.
In a perfect world. If he’d had all the insight and understanding there was, we could probably laugh at it. «You got me there, old buddy…! » I could have told him. Or I could say « That lens must be something else!! May I borrow? ». Nobody wants to know that they didn’t make the cut. That they weren’t handsome enough. Pretty enough. We’ve been down that road before. And remember, I can only talk for myself, but I, at least, need to be attracted. Physically, as well as mentally and emotionally. I’m sorry, maybe I’m shallow, but that’s God’s honest truth. Plus, he wasn’t at all funny. All he was, was nice. So actually, if he really was my girlfriend, I’d probably wouldn’t hang out so much anyway. Just the occasional time. And the thing is. I would LOVE to spend a lot of time with my husband. I’m sorry! I’m probably a hopeless romantic, but there`s no getting around it. The urges are strong.
Did that answer it for you?
(if not, then we have this whole blog actually. The answers will come. You wait and see).